They don't call it "SENSE"-sual for nothing!

We have all heard that men tend to be visual creatures, especially when it comes to sex. What about women, what kind of creatures are we? While I certainly can't speak for all women, I can speak for myself.

I won't lie. Sure, I can appreciate a good looking man when I see one, however, what turns me on more are the other elements which I cannot see....now THAT is erotic. Call it a titillating thrill of the semi-unknown, but there's nothing I find more "hot" than a slightly suggestive comment....not raunchy, but subtle enough to drive my imagination wild. After all, isn't sexual enjoyment 90% mental? I totally believe that. Perhaps the reason so many people suffer from sexual problems/disorders is simply because they are not fully in the moment, engaging the senses.

You know what I'm talking about. When someone is looking to turn on and/or get turned on in the physical absence of the other, what is one of the first questions he or she asks of the other: "So, what are you wearing...?" While a cliche and cheesy question, it is the exchange between the two that can make the difference between a "fizzle" or a "SIZZLE" experience. You say too much and it becomes contrived, mechanical.....but with a vague simplicity of flirtation and creativity, well, I think you get my drift. Add an already great mental, emotional, and playful existing connection you have with the person, and....even better.

You don't need sex toys or over-the-top outfits from Frederick's of Hollywood to be satisfied, though I'm sure lovers may find it to be a fun little bonus to add to the pleasurable repertoire!

What you DO need and want, however, is totally free and at your disposal....if you pay attention! These are the things we all need to pay attention to: what you see (and DON'T see!), what you hear, and what you can smell, taste and touch. In short, being seduced by your senses.
What was that you asked, dear reader? "What am I wearing?" Well, I think I'll leave that to your imagination.....