(At right: Taken from the 2010 U.S. Census)The agency I work for requires my colleagues and I to complete specific online learning courses every 3-4 months this year. I'm guessing they perceive such requirements as a way to promote "professional growth." I say this loosely, as every course I have taken thus far for these agency reqs undermines our intelligence...not to mention our common sense of basic psychology. The course I completed on Thursday ("A Culture Centered Approach to Recovery"), however, amazingly had something semi-thought provoking within it. I got so excited about it that I actually spent the most time on this one aspect of the course, even eager to share it with others. I'm not sure if it's meant to be tongue-in-cheek, disturbing, amusing, or a combination of all three. Whatever the intent, it definitely challenged me to stop and reflect on an issue that tends to get overlooked or at the least, a societal problem that doesn't (yet) encourage open-mindedness and helpful solutions. It's interesting to see the different priorities, values, and/or potential stuck points of each class. Maybe if we shift our perspective, we can leave room for a paradigm shift on the challenges of those struggling in poverty and proceed with a more collaborative approach.
"People who grow up in poverty learn different things from people who grow up wealthy or in middle class. But most schools and businesses operate with middle-class norms, and most teachers and business people grew up learning the hidden rules of middle-class families. It's no surprise, then, that children of poverty often struggle in education and business environments. In her book A Framework for Understanding Poverty, Dr. Ruby K. Payne presents lists of survival skills needed by different societal classes. Test your skills by answering the following questions." (Copyright by www.ahaprocess.com)
Could you survive in poverty? Check each item that applies.
I know how to...
__find the best rummage sales
__locate grocery stores' garbage bins that have throw-away food
__bail someone out of jail
__physically fight and defend myself
__get a gun, even if I have a police record
__keep my clothes from being stolen at the Laundromat
__sniff out problems in a used car
__live without a checking account
__manage without electricity and a phone
__entertain friends with just my personality and stories
__get by when I don't have money to pay the bills
__move in half a day
__get and use food stamps
__find free medical clinics
__get around without a car
__use a knife as scissors
Could you survive in middle class? Check each item that applies.
I know how to...
__get my children into Little League, piano lessons, and soccer
__set a table properly
__find stores that sell the clothing brands my family wears
__order comfortably in a nice restaurant
__use a credit card, checking and/or savings account
__evaluate insurance: life, disability, 20/80 medical, homeowners, and personal-property
__talk to my children about going to college
__get the best interest rate on my car loan
__explain the differences among the principal, interest, and escrow statements on my house payment
__help my children with homework and don't hesitate to make a call if I need more information
__decorate the house for each holiday
__get a library card
__use the different tools in the garage
__repair items in my house almost immediately after they break, or I know a repair service and call it
Could you survive in wealth? Check each item if you...
__can read a menu in French, English, and another language
__have favorite restaurants in different countries around the world
__know how to hire a professional decorator to help decorate my home during the holidays
__can name your preferred financial advisor, lawyer, designer, hairdresser, and domestic-employment service
__have at least two homes that are staffed and maintained
__know how to ensure confidentiality and loyalty with domestic staff
__use two or three "screens" that keep people whom you don't wish to see away from you
__fly in your own plane or the company plane
__know how to enroll your children in the preferred private schools
__are on the boards of at least two charities
__know the hidden rules of the Junior League
__support or buy the work of a particular artist
__know how to read a corporate balance sheet and analyze your own financial statements
